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"My Mistake. I'm Sorry Kaylee": A Father's Agony and Fury Over Bryan Kohberger's Plea Deal

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Posted: 3rd July 2025

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"My Mistake. I'm Sorry Kaylee": A Father's Agony and Fury Over Bryan Kohberger's Plea Deal.

The very fabric of Steve Goncalves's world has been ripped apart, and now, he's offering a heartbreaking apology to his late daughter, Kaylee. He feels not just let down, but used by a justice system that, in his eyes, has failed to deliver true accountability. The raw anguish pours from him as Bryan Kohberger, the man who confessed to the brutal murders of four University of Idaho students, will now spend four consecutive life terms behind bars—spared the death penalty that Goncalves so desperately sought.

Steve and Kaylee Gonclaves

Steve and Kaylee Gonclaves


A Promise Unkept, A Father's Plea for Forgiveness

"It’s my mistake. I’m sorry Kaylee," Goncalves choked out on NewsNation's Banfield on Wednesday, July 2. His voice, heavy with grief and regret, was a stark testament to the agonizing burden he carries. "I’m truly sorry that I didn’t get you a prosecutor who really believed what happened to you could only be fixed with life."

Just hours before this gut-wrenching confession, 30-year-old Bryan Kohberger dramatically shifted the course of justice. In a move that blindsided many, he pleaded guilty to four counts of first-degree murder, confessing to the horrific stabbings of University of Idaho students Kaylee Goncalves and her best friend, Maddie Mogen, both 21, and Xana Kernodle and Ethan Chapin, both 20. Their young lives were viciously ended at their off-campus rental home in November 2022, and with this plea, Kohberger avoids a trial that was set to begin in August.

A Chilling Encounter: Facing the Unimaginable

The courthouse on Wednesday became a crucible of grief and unspoken rage. Families of the victims gathered, their hearts aching, to witness Kohberger's guilty plea. It was a moment of raw confrontation, coming face-to-face with the individual who had extinguished so much light. Steve Goncalves and his family, though present at the courthouse, couldn't bring themselves to enter the courtroom. "It’s a pointless exercise," he declared, the sentiment a stark reflection of his shattered hope for absolute justice.

During the tense plea hearing, the judge systematically called out each victim's name, asking Kohberger if he had "willfully, unlawfully, deliberately, with premeditation and malice aforethought" committed the murders. With a chilling lack of emotion, Kohberger responded with a simple, unfeeling "Yes" for each. The absence of remorse, the cold, detached answers, only deepened the agony for those seeking a flicker of understanding, a hint of humanity from the killer.

"They Failed Us": A Family's Cry of Betrayal

The plea deal, which snatched away the possibility of a death sentence for Kohberger, has ignited a firestorm of condemnation from the Goncalves family. Their social media was ablaze with a furious declaration: the prosecution had "failed us."

They revealed a painful truth: a meeting with prosecutors on Friday, June 27, where the idea of a plea deal was met with a resounding "hard no" from their family. Yet, just days later, on Tuesday, July 1, prosecutors "vaguely mentioned a possible plea on Friday, without seeking our input, and presented the plea on Sunday." This perceived lack of consultation and the suddenness of the deal left them feeling exploited, as Steve Goncalves articulated to Banfield host Ashleigh Banfield. They feel used by a system they believed was fighting for their family.

Goncalves had yearned for Kohberger's fate to be decided by a jury of his peers, a collective voice that could have, perhaps, rendered the ultimate penalty. His raw desire for vengeance, for an unequivocal end to the killer, spilled out when asked what he would say to Kohberger. "You're a complete loser," he spat, adding with profound despair, “I’m ashamed that we couldn’t have ended you. You beat me on that. My bad.” It's a statement that underscores not just anger, but a father's crushing burden of what he perceives as a personal failure to protect his child, even in death.


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For a deeper dive into the legal complexities and profound impact of this case, view our exclusive video analysis on the Idaho Murders, featuring leading legal experts. This in-depth discussion provides critical perspectives on the investigation, the legal proceedings, and the implications of plea bargains in high-profile cases.

A Fateful Chain of Events: The Idaho Murders Timeline

The brutal slayings of four University of Idaho students sent shockwaves across the nation, leaving an indelible scar on a close-knit community. Here's a brief timeline of the tragedy:

  • November 13, 2022: In the quiet predawn hours, Kaylee Goncalves, Madison Mogen, Xana Kernodle, and Ethan Chapin are brutally stabbed to death in their off-campus home in Moscow, Idaho. Two other roommates are miraculously unharmed.
  • November 17, 2022: Autopsies confirm the horrific nature of the attack: all four victims died from stab wounds, likely while they slept, though some showed signs of defensive struggles.
  • December 7, 2022: Investigators urgently appeal to the public for information on a white 2011-2013 Hyundai Elantra spotted near the crime scene around the time of the murders, a crucial piece of the puzzle.
  • December 30, 2022: Weeks of intense investigation culminate in the dramatic arrest of Bryan Kohberger, a Ph.D. criminology student from a nearby university, at his family's home in Pennsylvania. He's charged with four counts of first-degree murder.
  • January 3, 2023: Kohberger waives extradition and is transported back to Idaho, where the legal process against him begins.
  • May 22, 2023: At his arraignment, Kohberger stands silent, leading the judge to enter a not-guilty plea on his behalf. The case moves toward a high-stakes trial.

July 2, 2025: In a stunning turn of events, Bryan Kohberger pleads guilty to all four murder counts. The plea deal ensures he avoids the death penalty, receiving four consecutive life sentences, but also brings a form of finality to a case that has gripped the nation.


Further Reading

For deeper insight into the Idaho college murders case and Bryan Kohberger’s trial, explore our continuing coverage:

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